This last year has been rockiest of my life. In early July 2017, I wrote about my heartbreak when my relationship of over a decade ended. By early August, I had decided to move. It was a long time coming; little of the move had to do with my Ex. He only helped in determining … Continue reading The Writer, the Move and Death
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Cardboard Box Contemplations
Several of my friends are moving. New homes and new starts. That's what I think of moving. A chance to begin again even if nothing else is changing. Changing your most intimate spaces can bring the breath of fresh air that a life needs. There is a part of me that has been discontent for … Continue reading Cardboard Box Contemplations
Letting Go..
Recently, I discovered that one of my favorite authors was ending a series that I have been reading for the better part of ten years. It saddens me, but I get it. She needs to me move on and it is time for us to let go Sookie Stackhouse and her fangy friends. Charlaine Harris's … Continue reading Letting Go..
My First Thirty Day Challenge
Currently, I am on day eight of no soda for a month. So far, I have only been tempted once. It feels good to be accomplishing something, even if it is something so slight. Everyday for the last eight days, I have been successful. I know there are a lot of folks out there that have … Continue reading My First Thirty Day Challenge
All By Myself
Sitting alone in my house for the first time in months with no roommate expected back and I don't know what do with myself. My roomie is moving out by the first of the month. It seems strange being alone in the house knowing that in a few short days my home will be … Continue reading All By Myself
The Blank Brain…..
After an afternoon of shopping with Momma, I sat down to finish the post I started on and there was no love in it. So here I am with a blank brain. Well, not completely, it is thinking about the gigantic mess in my spare room. It is too horrific for me to post a … Continue reading The Blank Brain…..
Adventure Update
I have been in my new home a little over a month. The storage unit that has haunted me isn't half-way empty as I had planned. I wanted to have the unit cleared out and most if not all of the stuff stashed away in the spare bedroom. Plans, I have reminded myself are meant … Continue reading Adventure Update
Where do we go from here?
So I took the plunge and started my life over again. Now what? What is it that I am trying to do that I couldn't do before and with a partner? My new house is coming together. There are curtains hanging in the bedroom and dinning room. I even have a table cloth and place … Continue reading Where do we go from here?
Back on Track.. Well.. Kinda of…
Thank you for continuing to patronize this site in my absence. In the last two weeks, I have ended a long term relationship and moved into a place of my own again. It was a hard step to make, but a necessary one. Sometimes even when you love someone it isn't meant to be a … Continue reading Back on Track.. Well.. Kinda of…
Tossing the junk; cleansing the past (An Update)
The past calls to me, but it is like the siren's call; deadly. It urges me to hold on go things. The objects which in turn sing my name; yet these items straddles me with their weight. They threaten to limit my future: emotional, physically and financially. This past weekend, I ventured into the confines … Continue reading Tossing the junk; cleansing the past (An Update)